When I was a boy of maybe eight or nine years old in the early sixties, my father took me out in the police car. This was when we were living in Sussex, New Brunswick and while many of my young memories have slipped away, this one stayed. It was just me and my Dad which didn’t happen that often when you had three other siblings so it was special to me.
A Private Moment
When I was a small boy
I rode with my father in
A police car and listened to
Him as he rhymed off the
Names of the cars we saw
That’s a 59 Ford Fairlane, there’s
A 57 Chev, a 54 Dodge wagon and
Look a brand-new T-bird
I didn’t know any of those names but
I knew a few birds like robins and sparrows
Though I never heard of a T-bird
He was in uniform when he
Took me on that ride
A thrill for me because
Cops were the good guys
And my Dad was one
It was a moment between
Father and son, privately shared
I grew older, a teenager, when
Having a cop for a Dad, was not cool
I could not deny he was a cop, but I denied
I was like him; I would not tell on my friends
They included me in their drinking
And a few other unsavory things
Things I shall not mention here
Cops were pigs, that is what they
Said and I let it go just to
Gain the trust of those people
People I don’t even remember now
I regret that, because he wasn’t
Just a cop, he was my father
I was never like him but
When I became a cop
It was then I understood
How much we were the same